And now…

  • It’s been a minute…

    How long has it been friends? A couple of years I think… since I’ve written on this page. How is that even possible!? Life… has been “LIFING” as they say. I’ve traveled… Jamaica, Dominican Republic, Mexico (3 times)… camping, on a cruise with the boys… I’ve been living. And that’s the goal right? To live Read more

  • All the single ladies (sing it with me)!

    I had a break up y’all!! And because life has ‘learned me’ a thing or two. I’m smiling about it. Read more

  • It’s 2022… A 2021 recap

    To say that time flies by is an understatement. I mean… time really does get away from us. I haven’t posted anything since February 2021. That’s INSANE. BJ is eleven and B2 is seven and my heart is full. Today I read back over all of my “walking wounded posts.” I’ve been feeling funky and Read more

  • Valentine’s Day

    Today I miss having someone to love. It sounds so flippant. Of course there’s BJ and B2 but that’s different, that’s maternal. Today I miss really loving someone. The happiness that you feel thinking about the person you love. The security in having a person in that capacity. And definitely/of course being loved in return. Read more

  • The grief monster

    I’ve written before about this time of year, the time of year leading up to the day the bottom fell out. Somewhere in between BJ’s birthday and February I start feeling like my nerve endings are starting to fray. Everything I touch I feel, like I’ve been partially holding my breath because I can’t quite Read more

  • My Village… Thank you…

    Today I want to write about friendships. When Byron died my friends stepped in. They did this thing where even if they barely knew each other they formed this connection with each other in order to be there for me. In my mind when I think about it I see a group of girls holding Read more